[转帖]聪明的女人__________献给所有的女性

小黛丝毫

<span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;"><p><br style="mso-special-character: line-break;"/><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312;">&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">当情爱已成往事，那就是一个不谓人知的历史，历史可以让人知道并可以借鉴，但是你已经是“过去时”情爱，万万不可以让你此时的爱人知道。<span lang="EN-US">
                                                        <br/><br/></span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312;">&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">
                                        </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">“过去时”的情爱对于女人就跟你的年龄和体重一样，不宜谈论只适合隐藏。几乎没有那个男人喜欢听自己心爱的女人讲述她的情感历程，除非哪个男人不爱你或着另有所图，否则怎么能忍受并且心平气和的听自己爱的人过去如何跟另一个男人的花前月下。<span lang="EN-US">
                                                        <br/></span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312;">&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">
                                                <br/></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312;">&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">
                                        </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">也许你爱的男人会款款深情的对你说：“我爱你，是爱你的现在和将来，与你的过去无关，无论你曾经做过什么”。如果你因为这句话而感动，便把自己过去的情史赤裸裸的展示在他面前，以示你对他的忠诚，那么注定你将是这段感情的失败者，因为你为将来给自己埋下祸根，你所说的一切会是他心里永远打不开的结。<span lang="EN-US">
                                                        <br/><br/></span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312;">&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">
                                        </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">所以千万别被他的话所迷惑，全盘托出你“过去时”情感，否则你将陷入亲手为自己挖掘的陷阱，不相信你就试试看。你更不要相信轻易相信赧然的誓言，在对你山盟海誓后，把你的“过去时”情感对他娓娓道来，这样的女人在情感上之上等于零，相当于一个白痴！<span lang="EN-US">
                                                        <br/><br/></span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312;">&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">
                                        </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">我坚信，我不说不等于不忠诚。音乐人高晓松曾经说过：所谓忠诚和专一，是因为我们对每一段生命中降临的爱情的坚信，每一次感情的投入和伤痕累累，那是我们成长过程中的历练和涅磐，是身体的淬火，是灵魂的更高纯净度的追求，所以我们要把过去的情感埋藏，伴随我们的是新的生命和爱情”。<span lang="EN-US">
                                                        <br/><br/></span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312;">&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">
                                        </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">我特别喜欢这句话，说的那么纯粹，没一点的虚伪。<span lang="EN-US">
                                                        <br/><br/></span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312;">&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">
                                        </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">一个聪明的女人，是不会在她爱的男人面前提自己情感的经历，那已经被尘封了的往事，打开他，无异于打开了潘多拉盒子，从那里飞跃而出的是嫉妒和猜忌，冷漠和战争。如果你想以平等的姿态和自己心爱的人相守一生，那么请你做个聪明的女人，闭上嘴！<span lang="EN-US">
                                                        <br/><br/></span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312;">&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">
                                        </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">一个女人你有权利将自己的过去隐藏，那跟忠诚无关，千万不要做和连上帝都不肯怜悯你的笨女人！ </span></p><p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;"></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;"><a href="http://bbs.qq.com/allphoto.shtml?url=http://img.poco.cn/photo/20060920/852766501520060920152528_2.jpg">http://bbs.qq.com/allphoto.shtml?url=http://img.poco.cn/photo/20060920/852766501520060920152528_2.jpg</a></span></p></span></span></span>

茹雪凝

<p>在乎与不在乎其实只是在于一个人的心态。。。。</p><p>宽容、理解真的那么难吗？？？</p><p>何必死死抓住一个人的过去？？</p><p>年轻难免轻狂。。。。。。</p>

[此贴子已经被作者于2007-3-14 11:31:31编辑过]

爱之旋

<p>对呀,其实应该是各人的心态吧</p><p>如果说爱一个人,却不能接受她的过去</p><p>那爱,也未免不现实了.</p><p>过去的虽已经成往事,</p><p>却毕竟还是存在的.</p><p></p>

kitty

<p>女人,只要爱了</p><p>就不会聪明.</p>

micaiyao

<p>既然相爱，该说的就不应该隐瞒。</p><p>正如爱之旋所说：“过去的虽已经成往事,却毕竟还是存在的.”</p><p>所以，能改变的唯有对待往事的态度。</p><p></p>

小黛丝毫

<p>女人,只要爱了</p><p>就不会聪明.</p><p>现实生活中不就是这样吗？</p>

星辰恋

<p>对呀,女人爱了就不会聪明</p><p>只能说男人们都太精明了吧.</p>

星辰恋

<p>找个真正爱自己的人,他是不会计较你的过去的.</p><p>坦诚是两个人相处的秘诀.</p>

小黛丝毫

<p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #9e0b0e; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;"><font size="2">不知道所谓的不聪明是不是傻呢？</font></span></p><p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #9e0b0e; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;"><font size="2">遇到爱你的人我想傻是值得的。</font></span></p>

清风小林

<p>或者男人并不喜欢听到女人的过去，起码可以肯定的，男人不喜欢女人在他的面前提到另外的一个男人，可是恋爱中的女人智商是为零的，会很主动地，把自己弄得很透明。。。</p>[em06]